Lose Weight Fast with Common Sense
Diet
Curiously most people will stick religiously
to the servings guidelines when eating something like
oatmeal, rice, or their half cup of broccoli, yet
when they eat chips, crackers, cookies and ice cream
they have as much as they want.
It makes more sense to eat all you want
of the vegetables and fruit snacks and limit the processed
food treats though. If you want permanent weight loss
try the Common Sense Diet.
Eat As Much As you Want of Real Foods.
Consider having as much "real"
food as it takes to satisfy, then limit the processed
foods. Eating double the ingredients in your sandwich
is still better than having half a sandwich and a
whole bag of greasy chips. If you look at the box
for hot cereal, it suggests a pretty small serving
size. Just ignore it. Fix as many "servings"
as you want, then eat a nice big bowl of hot cereal.
I usually cook enough for four and split it between
two of us. Am I as big as a barn? Hardly. But half
that amount of cereal would not satisfy me and I'd
be looking for something else to eat pretty quickly.
Eating plenty in the first place makes
much more sense and I'm generally satisfied for several
hours. So what if I eat more than the recommended
serving size?
The suggested servings have nothing
to do with you and everything to do with what the
manufacturer wanted to put as "so many calories
in a serving," or to be able to make a claim
like, "less than 2 net carbs," all of which
are meaningless. All that matters is what is a reasonable
serving for you.
Does it make sense that a 130 pound
woman eats the same amount as a 200 pound man? When
you go to a restaurant do you get served a "hungry
man" portion or do you get the same size portion
as your partner?
At least they created smaller plates
for kids, but most kids under age 8 aren't even going
to eat more than a couple bites of that. It's how
m It's what it takes to satisfy my hunger, and then
the nutrition carries me through until the next time
I get hungry.
Granted, I'm not also having fruit or
toast or anything else. I tend to eat one thing at
a time in the morning, except of course I have skim
milk on my cereal. Hot cereals with with flax seed
oil on top (taste takes awhile to get used to, but
it looks just like melted butter). There are so many
choices in wholesome foods there's no reason My point
is that it can take more food than you may have allocated,
especially if you've chosen some eating plan that
wasn't specifically designed for you such as out of
a book or magazine.
Every person is different in their food
requirements, so following a pre-planned meal plan
isn't necessary exactly right. You may need to modify
it somewhat.
Add an apple or other piece of fruit
a couple times during the day to get you over those
hungry times. Most fruit has less than 100 calories
in a piece. You can get 100 calories eating a piece
of candy too but which is going to satisfy you longer?
I'd guess the fruit will, but that's just me. I get
these pre-made sandwiches at the health food store
and I call them Dog Food Burgers (sorry, that's what
they look like).
I used to eat a whole, then one day
the thought struck me that maybe half would do. I
tried it and what do you know, it was plenty. Now
I always eat a half and save the other half for the
next day.
Is this a breakthrough? For me it was
because before I would use my eye to judge what I
needed to eat (Mom used to tell me, "Your eyes
are bigger than your stomach," and I guess she
was right!).
These sandwiches I'm referring to are
big, and they are filling. They contain oddball ingredients
like shredded carrots and cabbage, plus the meat-substitute
patty. They require substantial chewing, and they
are very nourishing and satisfying. That's what you
want from a sandwich, right?
When eating the DFB's I never crave
chips for instance, but give me a tuna sandwich and
I'm off looking for chips. The association between
certain foods and other foods is strong. French fries
with ketchup, apple pie with ice cream (some eat it
with cheddar cheese), peanut butter and jelly, ham
and eggs. Some things just seem right paired together,
or so we think, but what if you could shake up those
associations? If you've got a real habit of eating
chips for instance, what else is going on at the same
time? Is it the TV show you're watching, the time
of day, the other foods?
Try switiching things up, moving to
another room to eat, changing the channel or try a
completely different type of chips. For me, french
fries without ketchup just isn't the same so when
I broke my addiction to them I started by eating them
without the sauce. They weren't half as good, but
the point was, it's not the fries, it's the ketchup
(tomato candy to me). Sometimes trying something new
can help break those associations.
Try baked chips for instance, or just
cut back how many chips you have at a time if that
works better for you. Speaking of pickles; yes they
have high sodium. So what? If we would stop and think
for just one minute that they stop themselves from
eating perfectly fine foods like a pickle (great for
an appetizer), but do eat all the junk they want,
it simply makes no sense. Start to limit the snacks
and junk foods, and go ahead and have the pickles
and fruit snacks.
Double up on the amount of vegetables,
even triple up. Eat hearty! Food is a good thing.
Watch the sauces though because other than enhancing
the flavor of the food they aren't exactly nutrient
powerhouse foods. Have an extra bite of chicken and
a bit less sauce.
Limit Processed Foods for Faster Weight
Loss
If you grew up never eating anything
but processed foods it may be more difficult to try
new things, but be brave. I suggested having some
sliced tomato with dinner and the kids (teenagers)
looked at me like I was crazy, but when I was growing
up slices of tomato from our garden were often on
our plates. I love tomatoes. I'll eat a whole tomato
for a snack (just like an apple).
I Hate Vegetables
If you hate vegetables it's probably
because you were forced to eat them as a child when
they were over cooked, mushy, awful. Try them again
but this time lightly steamed so there is still some
give to the bite but never mushy or overly soft (unless
you have no teeth). I toss frozen vegetables in water,
bring it to a boil, then turn off the heat and by
the time I get my plate they're ready. It takes no
time at all to get them right, but they're easy to
over cook, so don't let them boil for 10 minutes.
Frankly, directions for cooking vegetables
are always wrong, so cut back on the time to cook
and taste them sooner. This week go ahead and eat
two slices of bread if that's what it takes to feel
satisfied. Have two (or more) servings of oatmeal.
Eat enough to be satisfied. Have a full sandwich if
half isn't enough, or if a whole is a bit much, cut
back to half. Find the quantity that works for you
by adjusting here and there.
Don't be afraid to try new things, vegetables
and fruits are inexpensive and a healthy addition
to your diet! Above all, work to modify what you prefer
to eat now, and slowly make changes so the changes
will become permanent. Even if you add a few hundred
calories to your daily total, it's far better to be
satisfied with what you've eaten than to feel still
hungry when you push away from the table. It's always
worked for me.
I don't take whimpy portions, but I'm
not a glutten either. Find a balance and you'll find
your weight will come off more easily.
About the Author
Kathryn Martyn, M.NLP, EFT coach and
author of Changing Beliefs, Your First Step to Permanent
Weight Loss lost 80 pounds over 17 years ago. Learn
how she lost the weight and maintains that weight
loss at http://www.OneMoreBite-Weightloss.com
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